Why affairs happen

Infidelity can happen in all kinds of marriages. That includes marriages that seem happy, as well as those with many problems. Infidelity may happen due to a variety factors, including:

• Lack of affection.
• Loss of fondness, love and care for each other.
• Weak commitment to the relationship.
• Breakdown of communication about emotional and relationship needs.
• Low self-esteem.
• Physical health issues, such as chronic pain or disability.
• Mental health issues, such as depression or anxiety.
• Addiction, such as addiction to alcohol, sex, romance or drugs.
• Problems that aren't addressed in a marriage, such as fear of intimacy or avoiding conflict.
• Major life changes, such as becoming parents or children leaving home.
• Stressful periods, such as when spouses must be apart for a long time.