Recognize intimate partner violence

Violence can affect anyone in an intimate relationship. And research has shown that gay men and other men who have sex with men experience intimate partner violence at a higher rate than do other men. But gay men might be more likely to stay silent about this kind of violence due to fear of discrimination. A lack of shelters and other facilities equipped to offer gay men a safe, supportive place to get help also may make it daunting to seek care.

In addition to the physical risks, staying in an abusive relationship might leave you depressed, anxious or hopeless. If you don't want to tell others about your sexual orientation or same-sex relationship, it may be hard to ask for help. But the only way to break the cycle of violence is to take action.

If you're the target of intimate partner violence, tell someone about the abuse, whether it's a friend, a loved one, a health care provider or another close contact. Or consider contacting a domestic violence hotline for help.