Creating advance directives

Advance directives need to be in writing. Each state has different forms and requirements for filling out legal documents. Depending on where you live, you may need to have the form signed by a witness or notarized. You can ask a lawyer to help you with the process, but you don't generally need a lawyer.

You can find links to state-specific forms on the websites of many organizations such as the American Bar Association, AARP, and the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization.

Look over your advance directives with your healthcare professional and your healthcare agent to be sure you have filled out forms correctly. When you have finished your documents:

• Keep the original advance directives in a safe place that's easy to reach.
• Give a copy of your advance directives to your healthcare professional. Make sure they know about your DNR or DNI orders and your healthcare power of attorney.
• Give a copy of your advance directives to your healthcare agent and any other agents.
• Keep a record of who has your advance directives.
• Talk to family members and other important people in your life about your advance directives and your healthcare wishes. By talking to your family members now, you help ensure that they clearly understand your wishes. Having a clear understanding of your choices can help your family members avoid conflict and feelings of guilt.
• Carry a wallet-sized card that notes you have advance directives and names your healthcare agent. The card should also state where a copy of your directives can be found.
• Keep a copy of your advance directives with you when you are traveling.